Anotherfinemess
New Member
Hi to all you foxes out there!
i need some advice!
I discovered that my wife had been having an affair with someone she works with, this affair has now ended (as far as i know), i'm finding it very hard to come to terms with this even though it has been 18 months since i found out.
she claims that she still loves me but i'm unsure of this and for this i have become very distant form her.
i have been thinking of leaving, not but not sure if it will be for good, the thing i want advice on is should i leave for a while to give us both a break and how i go about telling her this, i'm also worried if i tell her this that she will want me to go for good.
I know it is a decision i have to make on my own but i would like advice from other chaps.
Thanks
anotherfinemess
i need some advice!
I discovered that my wife had been having an affair with someone she works with, this affair has now ended (as far as i know), i'm finding it very hard to come to terms with this even though it has been 18 months since i found out.
she claims that she still loves me but i'm unsure of this and for this i have become very distant form her.
i have been thinking of leaving, not but not sure if it will be for good, the thing i want advice on is should i leave for a while to give us both a break and how i go about telling her this, i'm also worried if i tell her this that she will want me to go for good.
I know it is a decision i have to make on my own but i would like advice from other chaps.
Thanks
anotherfinemess
