For me it's irritation rather than hatred.Villa have been shite for a decade but always manage to hang on like the annoying party guest that won't go home.Newcastle I don't really care about.I suppose their constant banging on about what a huge club they are could get on your nerves if you let it but to me it just comes across as if it's being said by Dustin Hoffman in Rainman (big club,big club,yes we're a big big big club,big club,big club) Evokes mild pity more than anything else.I've been to Newcastle a few times & there really is **** all else there to get excited about so i guess they can't help it.
What they really are of course is a medium sized club with huge support.They were a big club in about 1955.Liverpool fans are well on their way to developing the same symptoms.Give it another 10 years & they'll be right there.