People That Piss You Off

[highland fox]

I know exactly what you mean H, I've had the same. Cut the bastards out of your life and you'll feel much better for it - I know I do :icon_bigg

I'm trying but I'm a soft fecker and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt when probably they don't deserve it:icon_roll

 

[Hazzman]

The two old twats in the q at the post office/Smiths this morning. Thought they were a couple of comedians and wanted everyone in the place to know they were too.

 

[Yorkshire Vixen]

I'm trying but I'm a soft fecker and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt when probably they don't deserve it:icon_roll

who has rubbed you up the wrong way??

 

[highland fox]

The two old twats in the q at the post office/Smiths this morning. Thought they were a couple of comedians and wanted everyone in the place to know they were too.

BG and Melton still off then ?

 

[Steven]

I'm trying but I'm a soft fecker and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt when probably they don't deserve it:icon_roll

I give people the benefit of the doubt but then follow the Cate method if they subsequently don't come up to scratch. :icon_bigg :icon_wink

 

[highland fox]

And..people who know you are a certain way and know certain things get to you and bother you but insist on doing those things to you because they either think its entertainment or they just want to piss you off.If you know something upsets and hurts people then should you not do it to the person especially when you call yourself a friend ?
Rant over

 

[Yorkshire Vixen]

And..people who know you are a certain way and know certain things get to you and bother you but insist on doing those things to you because they either think its entertainment or they just want to piss you off.If you know something upsets and hurts people then should you not do it to the person especially when you call yourself a friend ?
Rant over

if youre their friend and you know what theyre like and how they say things then surely you should know how they mean things instead of taking everything personally??

 

[highland fox]

But if they now you are sensitive to certain things and you do rightly or wrongly take things personally are they being unkind saying them to you in the first place,afterall they consider themselves your friend,perhaps they are being insensitive.41 years on and time to toughen up I think

 

[Yorkshire Vixen]

But if they now you are sensitive to certain things and you do rightly or wrongly take things personally are they being unkind saying them to you in the first place,afterall they consider themselves your friend,perhaps they are being insensitive.41 years on and time to toughen up I think

so youre saying that people should walk on eggshells when talking to you in case you get offended??

 

[highland fox]

so youre saying that people should walk on eggshells when talking to you in case you get offended??

Not at all,everthing is not black and white.People who really know me know I can take a joke more than most.My point was people tend to use you when they are down or at a low point in their life then when they are feeling roseier they treat you like you never existed and you never helped them out when they were down.
~Of course it could be i'm a terrible judge of character,just think its insensitive to play on peoples insecurities

 

[Yorkshire Vixen]

Not at all,everthing is not black and white.People who really know me know I can take a joke more than most.My point was people tend to use you when they are down or at a low point in their life then when they are feeling roseier they treat you like you never existed and you never helped them out when they were down.
~Of course it could be i'm a terrible judge of character,just think its insensitive to play on peoples insecurities

mayeb youre better off doing what cate said

 

[highland fox]

Like I said I'm gullible,I always try to see the best and the good in people......unless they live in Buckinghamshire

 

[enderby fox]

Like I said I'm gullible,I always try to see the best and the good in people......unless they live in Buckinghamshire

Shambles

 

[Yorkshire Vixen]

i nearly forgot about this one - nigel winterburn doing the co-commentry on setanta - he is terrible

 

[highland fox]

Craig Burley used to do Setanta,I thought he was good and quite funny

 

[FIF]

BG and Melton still off then ?

:icon_lol:

 

[Cate Fox]

I give people the benefit of the doubt but then follow the Cate method if they subsequently don't come up to scratch. :icon_bigg :icon_wink

You know it makes sense...

 

[LS6_Fox]

I know exactly what you mean H, I've had the same. Cut the bastards out of your life and you'll feel much better for it - I know I do :icon_bigg

Take the lady's advice H, it'll be better in the long run

 

[Boy Genius]

People who 'use' you when they are a bit lonely/down/pissed off then when things are better for them they want very little to do with you.Can't help but feel I'd be better off without these people in my life but it seems I'm a gullible bastard.

I have had a shit few weeks too HF, but after reading your post it cheered me up no end........:icon_bigg

 

[SJN-Fox]

Shambles

No, that's in York, not Bucks.