spionfox
Well-Known Member
I, for one will not be posting on here again.
Well done. I see with your continued posting you are getting into the spirit of things now.
Hypocrite :icon_wink
I, for one will not be posting on here again.
I'll put most things into my mouth but I draw the line at ****ing donuts.
Whatever happened to the good old cos lettuce?
I'm really ever so sorry, and I'll never ever do it again
I'm really ever so sorry, and I'll never ever do it again
TB is like a mini-society. It works like normal life.
Where ever I have been there has always been a dose of cynicism and 'picking on' of new people at work, school or even at home (new relatives for example).
Apart from the racial bit, I can understand anybody feeling the way that you do. I don't think anything is ever done intentionally to discourage new members from posting, but I do believe that this is the effect that it has.
People will say that TB is the way that it is because that is the way that the majority want it. That of course ignores the views of the great many people who never post because they feel intimidated. You will be told that it is banter - but as far as I am concerned banter is something that goes on between consenting adults, otherwise it can seem a bit like bullying.
The question of what to do about it is a different matter. As you can already see from the replies in the thread, most people deny that there is a problem at all - but that is only because it's not a problem for them.
I have got to say that in some ways, I agree with spion - give as good as you get - it's one way - but not everybody's way. The other way is just to keep posting and to ignore the less constructive replies - in that way you will get your view across. Do you really mind if nobody agrees with you? Well yes, you probably do - but I would think that it is pretty easy to ignore the responses of those whose only aim in life seems to be to criticise other's opinions.
Keep posting.
My mate Trevor wanted to join but was put off at the thought of all the abuse he might get !!
My mate Trevor wanted to join but was put off at the thought of all the abuse he might get !!
try being a woman on this forum, then you get abuse :icon_lol:
When I started posting here it was with a different name that didn't make it obvious that I was female. I got a few replies, generally friendly I have to admit. However the minute someone referred to me as "he" and I corrected them the attitude certainly changed :icon_roll
I get the feeling most (if not all) of the women on here can handle it.
(cue the edits!!)
Especially that YV, she loves to give it & take it apparently
you said you wouldnt say anything :icon_roll
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