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Hazzman said:
As I have said my suggestion applys to sport. There is little to gain in telling as young lad ''you're a disgrace. You're performance was as good as Maybury's on Saturday. Now improve or your dropped. You little idiot'

Education's different, that makes or breaks a kid's future.
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Come on Hazza, we all know that's a wrong attitude for little kids, and indeed for most adults.

I's all about diplomacy and the right coach to deliver the right message. There is a world of difference between laying into kids and letting them know they could do better and next time they should aim higher.

I think we're going round in circles, I can clearly see your view point Hazza, and I'm sure that works in reverse.
 
Hazzman said:
As I have said my suggestion applys to sport. There is little to gain in telling as young lad ''you're a disgrace. You're performance was as good as Maybury's on Saturday. Now improve or your dropped. You little idiot'

Education's different, that makes or breaks a kid's future.
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I Think it will still reflect on their attitude toward life though.

As i said there are ways of saying things. i wouldn't tell them they were a disgrace, but neither would i make a success out of coming second. rather say "not quite good enough, if you work hard maybe you can win next time"
but never "I'm Proud of you" or "Excellent Job" etc.
 
Football’s competitive nature can create and even support an environment for the
bully if individuals and clubs are unaware. The bully in football can be:
• A parent who pushes too hard
• A coach or manager who has a win-at-all-costs philosophy
• A child or young person intimidating another
• An official who places unfair pressure on a child or young person.
The damage inflicted by bullying can often be underestimated. It can cause
considerable distress to children and young people, in some cases affecting their
health and development. In extreme circumstances it can lead to self-harm.
 
Melton Fox said:
Come on Hazza, we all know that's a wrong attitude for little kids, and indeed for most adults.

I's all about diplomacy and the right coach to deliver the right message. There is a world of difference between laying into kids and letting them know they could do better and next time they should aim higher.

I think we're going round in circles, I can clearly see your view point Hazza, and I'm sure that works in reverse.
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Fair enough, as along as you have taken my opinion as intended, it had nothing to do with the upbringing of children.
 
stevewalshwasgod said:
Football’s competitive nature can create and even support an environment for the
bully if individuals and clubs are unaware. The bully in football can be:
• A parent who pushes too hard
• A coach or manager who has a win-at-all-costs philosophy
• A child or young person intimidating another
• An official who places unfair pressure on a child or young person.
The damage inflicted by bullying can often be underestimated. It can cause
considerable distress to children and young people, in some cases affecting their
health and development. In extreme circumstances it can lead to self-harm.
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I was bullied in school, this is completely unrelated to the discussion. no one has said to be nasty about it. What i'm talking about is setting higher standards, not being critical or abusive.
 
stevewalshwasgod said:
Football’s competitive nature can create and even support an environment for the
bully if individuals and clubs are unaware. The bully in football can be:
• A parent who pushes too hard
• A coach or manager who has a win-at-all-costs philosophy
• A child or young person intimidating another
• An official who places unfair pressure on a child or young person.
The damage inflicted by bullying can often be underestimated. It can cause
considerable distress to children and young people, in some cases affecting their
health and development. In extreme circumstances it can lead to self-harm.
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Where's that from SWWG? Just interested that's all.
 
stevewalshwasgod said:
Football’s competitive nature can create and even support an environment for the
bully if individuals and clubs are unaware. The bully in football can be:
• A parent who pushes too hard
• A coach or manager who has a win-at-all-costs philosophy
• A child or young person intimidating another
• An official who places unfair pressure on a child or young person.
The damage inflicted by bullying can often be underestimated. It can cause
considerable distress to children and young people, in some cases affecting their
health and development. In extreme circumstances it can lead to self-harm.
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Bollocks, it's character building, everyone should be bullied at some stage.
 
my friend in my office cant believe that someone said everyone should be bullied!
 
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