What Do You Want To Do, But Can't?

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I'm presuming you already know the answer to that question.

Would you be happier if your other half wasn't at all bothered who you were having a night out with & what might, or might not, be going on?

Yes I know all that and that's why I wont do it, but it was the answer to the question set in the thread title.

I have a number of good male friends, all strictly platonic. The above came to mind as I'd had a call from him, he was bored as his g/f was away, as was my o/h (he didn't know that when he rang, which was to organise something else) and I just thought how nice it would have been to go out for a bite to eat (I'm not talking candle lit dinner), a drink and a laugh, as I would have done with one of my girlfriends had they called.

I've been married almost 20 years, been 100% faithful in that time, am very happy with the situation and no plans to change it. Actually I'm sure my o/h would trust me and this guy but I live in a small town and I know other people would talk.
 
Yes I know all that and that's why I wont do it, but it was the answer to the question set in the thread title.

I have a number of good male friends, all strictly platonic. The above came to mind as I'd had a call from him, he was bored as his g/f was away, as was my o/h (he didn't know that when he rang, which was to organise something else) and I just thought how nice it would have been to go out for a bite to eat (I'm not talking candle lit dinner), a drink and a laugh, as I would have done with one of my girlfriends had they called.

I've been married almost 20 years, been 100% faithful in that time, am very happy with the situation and no plans to change it. Actually I'm sure my o/h would trust me and this guy but I live in a small town and I know other people would talk.


have you ever wondered where your o/h and his g/f are away at the same time :icon_bigg :icon_wink ;)
 
Yes I know all that and that's why I wont do it, but it was the answer to the question set in the thread title.

I have a number of good male friends, all strictly platonic. The above came to mind as I'd had a call from him, he was bored as his g/f was away, as was my o/h (he didn't know that when he rang, which was to organise something else) and I just thought how nice it would have been to go out for a bite to eat (I'm not talking candle lit dinner), a drink and a laugh, as I would have done with one of my girlfriends had they called.

I've been married almost 20 years, been 100% faithful in that time, am very happy with the situation and no plans to change it. Actually I'm sure my o/h would trust me and this guy but I live in a small town and I know other people would talk.

or maybe they want/expect you to do everything with them and go everywhere with them and are put out when you want to do something on your own/with someone else :102:
 
I would imagine jealousy has a lot to do with it but few will admit to it
 
I would imagine jealousy has a lot to do with it but few will admit to it


id agree and i bet theres a fair few on here who wouldnt admit to being jealous and like to play the macho/big man and like to think theyre some kind of fanny-magnet...:)
 
Does annoy me a bit when women go on about how horrible men are and how untrustworthy men etc are when just as many women are exactly the same but they choose to ignore that and say 'Men' rather than 'People'
 
id agree and i bet theres a fair few on here who wouldnt admit to being jealous and like to play the macho/big man and like to think theyre some kind of fanny-magnet...:)

I'm an insanely jealous boyfriend, with no particularly good reason. I have got a lot better, but when she was away at Uni I was a nightmare.

edit: but I am also a fanny magnet
 
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