Im not going to take you apart for this, however, It is so easy for someone to say something like this untill it happens within your family, you should never pretend to realise the sitiuation that some people are put in, the fact is you have absolutely no idea what makes people do this, they obviously have been pushed to such a point they are not even thinking in the same way they have for their entire life.
Im not going to go into specifics but this has been one of the most difficult years of my life, my grandad took his own life in Feb because he could not live without my grandma who died in December last year, I will never pretend to know what it feels like to lose the person who made you want to be on this earth for the past 50 years, even though I felt let down at the time, it's not something I can understand because I have not been in that position.
His love for his wife was simply too strong, and I would argue all night long with anyone who called him a coward for it.