foxin_oz
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If someone did it to you now, what would you call it?
Flirting? :icon_bigg
If someone did it to you now, what would you call it?
Hitting somebody smaller than you in an effort to cause them pain is physical assault.
I don't give a **** what twisted logic you've applied to your actions, it is assault.
So if someone smaller than you was beating the crap out of you, what would you do? :icon_conf
you can instill discipline without the need to hit the kids and the earlier you do it the better
I'd probably kick them in the nuts, then try to bite their ear off, but we're getting off topic
Being a parent to four children is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life.
They test you to the limit, you have to develop a whole load of new skills that you never knew existed and almost 100% of your own personal time has to be dedicated to them.
It is hard, it is harder than I could ever imagined it would be, just the same as everybody finds. However, the rewards are not quantifiable, and the love that is exchanged doesn't have words that can describe it.
Unless a parent actually beats a child, neglects a child, abuses a child, I find it very difficult to judge them for just a short sharp smack on the fingers or a tap on the bum. I guess it all comes down to definition of abuse.
I for one, would never judge another parent on their disciplinary methods so long as it is within the law. It's a bloody hard job.
I would love to be the best Daddy in the world, but I can't find the manual that tells me how to do this.
Being a parent to four children is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life.
They test you to the limit, you have to develop a whole load of new skills that you never knew existed and almost 100% of your own personal time has to be dedicated to them.
It is hard, it is harder than I could ever imagined it would be, just the same as everybody finds. However, the rewards are not quantifiable, and the love that is exchanged doesn't have words that can describe it.
Unless a parent actually beats a child, neglects a child, abuses a child, I find it very difficult to judge them for just a short sharp smack on the fingers or a tap on the bum. I guess it all comes down to definition of abuse.
I for one, would never judge another parent on their disciplinary methods so long as it is within the law. It's a bloody hard job.
I would love to be the best Daddy in the world, but I can't find the manual that tells me how to do this.
If anyone is genuinely interested in this topic:
I have been beating my son for the last seven years, sometimes rendering him barely able to breath - whereas I treat my daughter like a princess and do not lay a finger on her.
In another 8-10years we should have pretty conclusive evidence to kill off the whole smacking/non-smacking debate for once and for all but in the meantime initial results look like smacking breeds an irrational belief in a deity.
nice post
I do have the occasional "out of ****" experience you know :icon_winkIt was, especially considering what a cnut he is in other ways :icon_bigg
I do have the occasional "out of ****" experience you know :icon_wink
They're not big ears, they're handles.Sex with chickens doesn't count as 'out of ****' you Meltonian weirdo.
I've seen the massive sheds out there staffed by big eared boys.
They're not big ears, they're handles.
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